We recognize love only when it ends. We appreciate its beauty only
when it’s lost. We realize the essence of it only when it has been separated
from us and taken far away. When we are in a relationship, we expect a lot. And
fortunately, we get a lot. But expectations never stop and that ultimately
leads to misunderstandings and a number of problems. We don’t value what other person does for us
but always demand much higher. And when love turns its face from us, a strange
void surrounds us as a shattered heart brings emptiness and unhappiness. We
realize the fact how complete our life was in the presence of our ex-soul mate.
We feel ‘How well he/she had managed us and our problems’. Every little task
that we do reminds us of our soul mate and we have a strong urge to get him/her
back. We might have showed our attitude when the person we ‘loved’ was going,
but now that attitude haunts us. And that’s how we recognize its real worth.
